Posted in book reviews, Cultural Appropriation, witchy book reviews, Witchy Tips

Witchcraft Books by Silver Ravenwolf

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When I first starting practicing Wicca, like a decade ago, I came across a copy of To Ride a Silver Broomstick by SIlver Ravenwolf. I gobbled it up. It is not until, now, as a 23 year old witch with ten years of experience under my belt, that I realize what an absolute load of crap that entire book was. I can wax poetic about why, for the love of all that is good in this world, you should not, under any circumstance read, buy or support Silver Ravenpoop’s books. She is not an even remotely good source and she profits off the ignorance of young pagans.


  • She claims that Wicca and Witchcraft are the same thing. Yup, if you are a witch, you have to be Wiccan.
  • She claims that Satanist and Christian witches do not exist. Because all witches are Wicca, right?
  • She’s very clearly heteronormative, and does not acknowledge any genders other than the Male/Female, God/Goddess idea. Oh, and I do mean the CIS idea of Male/Female. Apparently you’re only a dude or a girl if you have the biological body parts to go with it. Yeah.
  • She talks a LOT about sex and fertility rites, but only in regards to straight people. Yup, if you’re LGBTQA, Ravenwolf refuses to acknowledge or write about you.
  • She believes and preaches the importance of an intact hymen being equal to a person’s virginity. As if virginity is actually a biological state and not just a sociological concept invented by men. Mhmm.
  • Her books are rank with cultural appropriation. Like, you name a sacred religious rite from a minority culture and she has probably written about it and said its 100% a-okay to steal stuff that doesn’t belong to you.
  • She’s clearly racist and speaks from a standpoint of white privilege, and her words are aimed at a young, white, straight audience.
  • She teaches hate and intolerance.
  • She teaches a completely incorrect version of history and tries to convince her readers that everything is a conspiracy.
  • She tries to convince us that witches are the most persecuted group of people in history and completely erases any mention of Native American genocide and the enslavement of African Americans.
  • She believes Christians and Christianity is evil and is outspoken about how much she hates them. Same for Satanists, pretty much. If you don’t believe in Wicca, you should be shunned, apparently.


I just. I can’t even. I could go on. There is more I could list. But honestly, I will say it right now, do not even bother reading anything by this fraud. She teaches nothing but hate and prejudice and if you have already had the misfortune of reading one of her books, throw it away or burn it and try your best to unlearn everything she has taught you. Egads, she is just awful. (shudders) All 21 of her books are laughably bad and full of crap. I attempted to read some of her other books, thinking maybe To Ride A Silver Broomstick was just like, a bad start, or something. Nope. They’re all awful.

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Violet’s Witchy Tips Masterpost

This is a collection of my most popular witchy tips content posts! I will be adding on to this regularly. It is designed to help witchlings and seasoned practitioners alike! If there is a topic you would like for me to writer about that I have not already covered, please contact me and I will make it!

The Basics//

Getting Started/

Elemental Based Craft//

Location Based Craft//

Internal Based Craft//

Hobby Based Craft//

The Craft, Identity and Health//

The Craft and Activism//

Open Pantheons//

Cultural Appropriation//

Other Useful Information//

Posted in Cultural Appropriation, Witchy Tips

A Basic Guide to Open and Closed Religions and Cultures

What is an Open Religion/Culture?

An Open Religion or Culture is a belief system that any person can adopt. These belief systems are considered ‘dead’, as their original religion and culture have little to no pure descendants or followers, so the belief systems were adopted by the reconstructive movement and revitalized. These pantheons and belief systems are open for anyone to use.

What is a Partially Closed Religion/Culture?

These are religions and cultures that do accept outsiders or convertees into their folds, but they must be initiated into the religion by means of cultural or religious rites or rituals performed by elders or experienced members of said culture or religion. Examples of this could be that in most sects of Christianity, Baptism is required. Or in Wicca or Voodoo one must be initiated into the religion by a practicing priest or elder.

What is a Closed Religion/Culture?

This is a belief system that is still alive and well in the world among the cultures that practice them, and have practiced them for hundreds or thousands of years. These systems are closed to outsiders in order to protect the cultures and religions from further appropriation and cultural theft. Closed cultures and religions are cultures that have historically been the victims of genocide, colonization, assimilation and discrimination at the hands of the oppressors or majority cultures (IE European cultures, White American culture, etc).  Unless one is born into this culture or religion, they are not able or welcome to practice said religion or cultural traditions.

Open Religions and Cultures//

Partially Closed Religions, Practices and Cultures//

  • Traditional Wicca
  • Christianity
  • Catholicism
  • Judaism
  • Islam
  • Bahá’í Faith
  • Buddhism
  • Hinduism
  • Voodou
  • Hoodoo
  • Santeria
  • Brujeria
  • Taoism
  • Confucianism
  • Sikhism

Closed Religions and Cultures//

  • Shinto (Koshinto, Shugendo, Yoshida Shinto, etc)
  • First Nation (Tlingit, Anishinaabe, Cree, Oneida, Innu, etc)
  • Native American (Mvskoke, Lakota, Hopi, Zuni, Blackfoot, Inuit, etc)
  • Indigenous (Aztec, Mayan, Olmec, Incan, etc)
  • Pasifika (Maori, Hawaiian, Rapa Nui, etc)
  • Aboriginal (Australian, Philippine, Balinese, etc)
  • West African  (Yoruba, Isoko, Ashanti, Bori, etc)
  • Northern African (Berber, etc)
  • Central African (Bushongo, Bambuti, Lugbara, etc)
  • Eastern African (Akamba, Dinka, Lotuko, Masai, etc)
  • Southern African (Badimo, Lozi, Tumbuka, Zulu, etc)
  • Jainism
  • Zoroastrianism

Please note that this is in no way an all inclusive list. I’m sure I have forgotten a few somewhere. If you see that I have forgotten to include any, please message me and I will add it. Please do not send me hate over this post, as it is purely educational and I will not engage in any discourse about it, or conversations with hateful messages. I am neurodivergent and am very prone to panic attacks. I will not hesitate to delete and block anything that could threaten my mental health. Thank you.

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Tips and Ideas for Artistic Witches//

I’m an artist and I love mixing my magick with my every day life so here’s some fun easy stuff you guys could try <3

  • Use storm water for your watercolor paintings to draw a deep, passionate emotional response from your audience
  • Keep chalcedony on you while drawing, it can enhance inspiration and creativity
  • Use leftover wax from your ritual candles to make wax-splatter art (that shit is cool yo)
  • When you’re upset, draw whatever pops into your head, even if it’s scribbles, and then burn it to banish the negative energy
  • Enchant your pencils and paintbrushes
  • Charge your tools with creative and positive energy.
  • Make magick collages from pressed flowers and leaves you’ve collected and hang it in your room to remind you that nature will always be our #1 teacher
  • Fill your sketchbook with sigils
  • Draw your own tarot cards. The unique and person touch of it will make the deck 100 times more powerful, and as a plus you can program it to just work for you
  • Sculpt poppets out of clay, or idols of your deities
  • Turn your poetry into spells
  • Use glitter in binding spells
  • Make Samhain masks out of craft foam


Posted in Cultural Appropriation

On Totems/Spirit Animals//

What are Totems and Spirit Animals?

The terms ‘Totem’ and ‘Spirit Animal’ refer specifically to those beliefs and traditional practices held by various Indigenous, Native and First Nation cultures. Some people are born into their totem, some are chosen, some go through a rigorous time of cleansing, facing obstacles, fasting, and vision seeking to earn their ‘spirit animal’. The animal chooses the native in this instance. These totems are seen as not the spirit of an individual animal, but instead the collective or ‘head’ spirit of that species. It is not an ‘animal’ representation of the person’s own personality, like some new age white girl hippie zodiac shit might say it is. A native’s totem or spirit animal is a collective soul of a species of animal that has chosen that native person specifically in order to teach them lessons and offer their guidance for the rest of the person’s life.

Do you have one?

I do. I am Mvskoke Creek and Western Cherokee. I earned my spirit animal after a period of 5 years, starting when I was about 17. The obstacles and trials I faced nearly killed me, on multiple occasions. It was not until I was about 19 that I realized what was going on and when I was 20, my animal appeared to me and chose me. I have been learning diligently from them and their people ever since. I am constantly grateful and appreciative that they chose me.

Okay, so, how can I get a Spirit Animal?

You can’t. Unless you are a member of an Indigenous tribe that practices a tradition of Totems or Spirit Animals, you cannot have one. The process of receiving or being chosen by one varies from tribe to tribe, and native to native, and it is a very personal and private matter.

But, other cultures have Spirit Animals???

Actually, no. No other cultures have totems/spirit animals in the exact same sense as Indigenous peoples do. However, many other cultures do have traditions that refer to ‘clan animals’ and ‘animal guides’ (such as the Nordic Fylgja, which is a guardian spirit that takes the form of an animal that best represents their human’s personality.) but these are more closely related to the idea of a witch’s familiar.  A person can relate to an animal, connect with a specific spirit of an individual animal and learn from that animal. An animal can represent a family’s lineage and their characteristics throughout the bloodline’s history. That does not make it your totem or spirit animal. These phrases, ‘spirit animal’ and ‘totem’, are tied directly to the colonizer’s ideas of  those practices in Indigenous religions. Because of centuries of having our cultures ripped from us and beaten out of us, we have lost our original terms for many rituals and important spiritual aspects of our cultures. So we are reclaiming the English words used for them, much like the terms ‘two spirit’ and ‘smudging’.

So, why exactly is it so bad if someone says they have a Spirit Animal?

It’s usage in modern new age culture is a mockery and insult of its original form. It’s just another piece of our culture that was violently taken from us. We weren’t allowed to speak our own languages, or practice our own religions, under penalty of torture, for hundreds of years (Yes. Hundreds. Colonization began nearly 500 years ago and we are STILL being persecuted. See the NODAPL and Standing Rock situation going on right now for example). While white children jokingly say, ‘omg Johnny depp is totally my spirit animal!’, we are still struggling to reclaim the pieces of our culture that were stolen and held from us at gunpoint. Totems and spirit animals are an important part of many tribe’s religious beliefs, and are seen as a right of passage for many. I, for one, never considered myself an adult until after my animal chose me. I had to EARN their guidance. It’s not something you can just take an online quiz for, or joke about. Bottom line is, if you aren’t native, you cannot have a spirit or totem animal. You can have individual spirits of animals that you befriend and learn from, sure. But not spirit animals or totems. They are part of native cultures and native religions. Not native? Then it’s not something you can have.

Please do not send me any hate over this post. I am neurodivergent and very prone to panic attacks. I will not hesitate to block and delete anything that may threaten my mental health. Thank you so much for reading. Mvto!

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Pagan Holiday Notes//

Thought I would post my personal notes and favorite foods I make on the holidays. :3 These are Holidays commonly celebrated by pagans in general.

Yule//December 21st

  • Winter Solstice
  • Shortest Day of the Year

-pumpkin pie
-bean soup
-powdered sugar pancakes
-walnut salad


Imbolc//February 2nd//
•time to welcome spring

-sprout salad
-baked potatoes
-pepper and paprika broth
-blueberry pie

-first flowers of the year

Ostara//March 21st//
•first day of spring
•spring equinox

-miso soup
-maple candy
-spinach and mushroom omelette
-homemade chocolates

-spring flowers

Beltaine//May 1st//
•prepare for the warm months ahead

-dandelion salad
-cream pie
-honey cakes
-goat cheese and asparagus quiche

-St. Johns wort

Litha//June 21st//
•summer solstice
•longest day of the year

-cherry jello
-strawberry shortcakes
-bell pepper salad
-spinach and pepper quiche


Lammas//August 1st//
•first harvest of the year

-tomato basil soup
-peach pie
-fry bread

-crab apples

Mabon//September 21st//
•autumn equinox
•first day of fall

-brown sugar oatmeal
-harvest stew
-oatmeal cookies
-pomegranate salad

-autumn leaves
-pine cones

Samhain//October 31st//
•new year

-Apple salad
-Apple pie
-sweet potatoes
-Apple cider
-deviled eggs


Once again these are just my personal associations and what I enjoy cooking on these particular holidays. It’s different for everyone! ^^

Posted in Cultural Appropriation, Witchy Tips

On Dreamcatchers//

What is a Dream Catcher?
The dreamcatcher comes from the Ojibwe and Chippewa people. Traditionally, it is made from bent wood, sinew and one or two feathers. The sinew is weaved to mimic a spider’s web. In many native religions, including my own, Grandmother Spider played a huge role in the placement of the sun in the sky. Dreamcatchers were traditionally hung over children’s beds to trap their nightmares.

During the 60s and 70s, the making of dreamcatchers became popular with other Native tribes, such as the Pueblo, Navajo, Lakota and Cherokee peoples. But as far as I’ve seen, the Ojibwe are the only traditional creators before the ‘pan-indian’ movement. This movement during the 70’s involved the sharing of many cultural aspects across many tribes such as dreamcatchers, fancy dancing, powwows, certain cleansing rituals, beadwork styles, Etc. This was not appropriation, but appreciation. Our tribes adopted certain things and shared certain things from one another to unite us in all of our relative struggles. We had all suffered at the hands of the invaders. The pan-Indian movement was a way of uniting us and making peace.

Dreamcatchers are a very popular gift among native peoples. They symbolize peace, the unity of all Natives and are often considered sweet gifts given out of love. It is a very important cultural icon for us.

Nowadays you’ll often find them with beads, colored leather, and multiple feathers hanging from the frame. Every Native Reservation produces and sells dreamcatchers, it seems. You can buy them at almost every powwow. There are even some online stores run by enrolled Natives that make and sell dream catchers. While traditionally hung above a bed frame, now they can be found as home decor and even on rear view mirror of cars. Some Natives view the dreamcatcher as the Christian equivalent of cheap plastic crosses sold at malls.  Sadly, outside of certified Native-made stores and powwows, dreamcatchers are often made and mass produced by underpaid workers who are not Native in Asian sweatshops. These are cheap imitations and are insulting to our history and beliefs, as well as harmful to our economies as many Native artists rely on the income received from selling dream catchers to feed their families.

I do not recommend non-Natives owning a dreamcatcher, due to the religious and ceremonial ties to Native history that they carry. Much like frybread and spirit animals/totems, they have become a universal Native entity and symbol, carrying the spirit of Union and Peace amongst our people. If you are not Native, regularly cleansing a dreamcatcher can be difficult, as the process for doing this is a sacred closed tradition that varies from tribe to tribe. If you absolutely MUST have this piece of our culture, you can buy Native, or receive it from a Native as a gift. It will have no Medicine and will not work if you buy that cheap mass produced reproduction you see in gift shops. And you will be committing cultural appropriation and a deep disrespect towards Native cultures in the process.  If you are interested in selling and making dream catchers yourself, that is illegal under the American Indian Arts and Crafts Law of 1990 and is also deeply disrespectful and hurtful to us. Instead, I would recommend making a Witch’s Ladder, which serves a similar purpose and is not tied to any one single culture and religion.

I am an enrolled member of the Mvskoke Creek Nation. Thank you for reading! Mvto!

Please note that I do not speak for all Indigenous people. Do not send me hate over this post, as I am neurodivergent and extremely prone to panic attacks. I will not hesitate to delete and block anything that may threaten my mental health.

Posted in Cultural Appropriation, Mvskoke Creek NDN

On Smudging//

//What is Smudging?//

Smudging is a traditional religious ceremony practiced by a majority of First Nations, Native American and Indigenous peoples. Smudging is done to prepare a space or a person for a spiritual ritual or ceremony, or the arrival of spiritual leaders and elders into a sacred space. The burning of herbs is often accompanied by chanting, singing, fervent prayer and sometimes musical instruments. The particular herbs and techniques will vary from tribe to tribe and clan to clan, which is why the method is often past down from family members and tribal elders.
//How can I Smudge?//

Unless you are Native and have been taught by family/clan/tribe members, you cannot smudge. Native religions and cultures are closed to outsiders/non-natives.
//But other cultures smudging!!!??//

Actually, they use smoke cleansing. Smoke cleansing is the burning of purifying herbs to cleanse an area. It is a very basic procedure. The term for it is ‘Cense’. If you are Celtic, it is ‘Saining’. This process is completely different and unlike Smudging. Many cultures all over the world smoke cleanse, and have their own techniques and specific herbs they prefer. However, Smudging is a term that refers specifically to a religious ritual practiced in nearly all Indigenous tribal cultures. Because of centuries of having our cultures ripped from us and beaten out of us, we have lost our original terms for many of our religious rituals and important spiritual aspects of our cultures. So we are reclaiming the English words used for them, much like the terms ‘two spirit’ and ‘spirit animals’.
(I had originally posted a section here about the specific beliefs of my tribe, but I decided to take it down as this post usually gets a lot of discourse and I do not want my tribe’s beliefs exposed to negativity.)

I do not speak for all Indigenous peoples. I am Mvskoke Creek and Western Cherokee. I am what my people consider a Kerrv, a medicine person who has learned their practice through various sources and with experience. Please do not send me hate about this post. I am neurodivergent and prone to panic attacks. I will not hesitate to delete and block anything that could threaten my mental health. Thank you for reading. Mvto!